Except:
For the last two usages, just consider "except" by itself, and the 'to' or 'that' part of the following item. For instance:
This passage is incomprehensible, except to those who can read Estonian.
Read as 'incomprehensible, EXCEPT [prepositional phrase]'
'Identical to' is standard usage. As far as I know, 'identical with' is nonstandard (although you should certainly leaf through your OG and check out whether it's ever used - I can't imagine seeing 'identical with' on the GMAT)
Insist/centers is fine with both 'on' and 'upon' - it's just a matter of style.
(1) Correct.
(2) 'Depends on' and 'depend on' are used in exactly the same situations. The only difference is that 'depends' is used with singular subjects, and 'depend' is used with plural subjects.
(3) Both correct. 'Differ
with' is used for people:
My opinions on taxation differ from Joe's.
I differ with Joe on the issue of taxation.
(4) I think I've seen both of those usages on the GMAT. In the interests of concision, you can omit the 'to' - especially in cases where there's an indirect object (like the 'me' in your example sentence).
(5) See above.
(6) 'Invest in' is the standard usage.
(7)Yes. Look
here.
(8) No, you can have 'rates of', if you're talking about the rates at which something happens. (The rates of childbirth in all Western European countries have been falling for the last few decades.) 'Rates for' is normally used when talking about price points, etc., as in 'The rates for advertisements in our monthly magazine will increase on 1 January'.